Have you ever refused to kiss afterwards, or been refused?

I’ve been lucky not to have been in this situation but I couldn’t help but overhear someone’s conversation in the ‘ladies room’ of a bar, where after she’d given him a blowjob and swallowed, that the boyfriend wouldn’t kiss his girlfriend until she’d brushed her teeth or at least gargled water. What?! C’mon fellas it’s not like she’s about to share it with you!

What’s your opinion?

For those who usually take charge in the bedroom, how does it feel when roles are reversed?

Personally I’m very submissive, I love being controlled, being told what to do, but there are times where I demand things my way and take over the situation. Maybe pull out the handcuffs, or tie him to the bed with scarves, ribbons etc. Always adds to the fiery passion, I love it and so does he!

In the words of the Cadbury Crème Egg adverts, how do you like yours? (Ok so it’s normally eat…but whatevers, I tried!) hehe

How do you let your partner know (or perhaps how do they let you know) they’re hitting “the right spot”?

In my case, I can tell on a guy from the way his groans change and I think the same applies when he’s doing the same for me, my moans get shaky or I start gasping and that’s when you know we’re close.

I know a friend of mine bites her boyfriend (I can only assume nicely) when he’s hitting her spot. What’s your situation?

When it comes to relationships (whether you’re in one, or what you’re having is just plain fun), are you the chaser, or are you the chased?

For me, I have to say, the different American accents drive me wild (I still dreaming of my recent “vacation” in Florida) I think I was constantly horny in the presence of a hot American guy – and believe me, there were LOTS of them!

The Australian accent also really does it for me!

Whilst a lunch recently with my two best friends, we got talking about teasing in it’s many forms. I’m talking about exchanging flirty and filthy texts, sending pictures to one another, calling up for phone sex.

I’ve always been a tease, that’s just my nature. If you can’t be with me face to face, I’ll still give you what you want, but I’ll tease you along the way. However, if we’ve been teasing each other over text before we get to seeing one another then it’s very likely that foreplay will go out of the window and I’ll simply want my way with you.

It got me thinking, is it best to tease in order to get what you want, or do you go straight for the kill in order to get it?