Some things are better left as a one night stand
… FACT!
I met up with Colin last night and I knew all night that something wasn’t right. Despite as much as I try to think I can have a ‘just sex’ relationship with someone I can’t. It doesn’t have to become a relationship, there just has to be a connection. And with Colin there just wasn’t one.
Upon leaving his hotel room this morning I came to the decision that some things are better left as a one night stand. This man could have had it good, but he never did treat me the way I deserved. Everything we did was like sneaking around. I even remember feeling this way after seeing him the second time, I felt it was time to call it “a day” yet when he told me he’d be in Manchester I couldn’t resist but go back for me.
Part of me wonders how I allowed it to happen in the first place! Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I regret it. I’ve said we’ll keep in touch (only as friends) but even I know that’s got trouble written all over it. In my eyes, when something is finished, it’s finished.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
Couldn’t agree more! I have recently split and having first thought we could still just be fuck buddies it just doesn’t work. When its over its over. No matter how much we want things to be different.
Let the fat lady sing and the skinny one start to get fat – that makes sense to me…
Strange how life leads us all in same direction… well, maybe its just a few of us and two are here
May 14th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
I think you did the right thing, although I also think you’ll be back for some more sex when you’re horny.
Think you’re a lot like me in the way your mind works, I’ve been the same with people in the past.
It’ll be interesting to see if you do go back for more in the near future.
Kepp smiling my friend.
Paul
Xxx